I masturbate, she masturbates.
I’ll take time for myself in bed or the shower. She’s been known to slip in a solo session if she can’t sleep at night and has a toy she keeps in the shower.
While we enjoy our time alone and do play on our own quite a bit due to our testing and reviewing gig, what we enjoy most is playing together.
With our sex toys, of course.
It hasn’t always been that way, and after ten years of reviewing toys, we’ve come a long, long way. When we first started incorporating sex toys into our routine there was some hesitation on her part. Now, there are certain positions she’ll ask for simply so that she can use her vibrator. She also really enjoys watching as I stroke myself with one of my toys. Sometimes she asks for me to finish myself, others she pulls the toy away and finishes me herself.
Using sex toys has also made us better lovers, more in tune with what the other person wants. By watching the pace at which I stroke myself, she has become that much better at using her hands and mouth. When I look at her pleasuring herself, I see where her focus is and I can apply that to how I use my hands or mouth.
With Valentine's Day right around the corner, we thought we’d share two of our favorite sex toys we use in our bedroom and maybe inspire other couples out there to try some of these in their bedrooms.
Kiiroo Strokers
I love my strokers from Kiiroo, she loves watching me while using my strokers from Kiiroo. When she’s on her period there are times when she wants to get me off but isn’t in the mood for oral, anal, or sex in the shower.
Cue my Kiiroo strokers.
Yes, at first sight, they’re a little odd-looking. After all, they’re molded using the vagina and mouth of various pornstars. Once you get past this though, these strokers bring intense sensations to the men who use them and are a fun way to please and tease your partner. In short order, these strokers are fun for all and are a great alternative for those times when you’re not in the mood to have sex but want to help him meet his needs.
She loves using it during foreplay, rather than using lube to slick the toy up, she’ll use her mouth to help me enter the toy. This drives me wild. When she’s not interested in sex but wants to help me out, she loves using the toy on me as I lay beside her. Eventually, I’ll take the toy from her and finish myself off on my own. It’s fun to hear her dirty talk, nibble on my ear, or kiss my neck as I get closer and closer to orgasm.
Satisfyer Twirling Joy
The Twirling Joy is her one and only. For her it begins and ends with this simple vibe that brings her such consistent pleasure it almost seems as if it was made just for her.
The Twirling Joy is Satisfyer’s precise, pin-point vibe, a toy that specifically targets the clit in ways no other toy has. The vibe moves in quick, circular motions and gets her off every time. She can use the toy to have an orgasm, then receive an orgasm from oral, and then finish our session by having a final orgasm either by riding me or holding the toy to her clit during doggy.
Twirling Joy is great to use together as an add-on to sex or simply for a quick solo session to help fall asleep. It is her go-to and a fantastic toy for anyone’s collection.
Have a Discussion…
While we love using toys on our own and together, our journey with sex toys started with a simple discussion and we urge all of you who may read our piece to do the same. While they have had a very positive effect on our bedroom and relationship, the decision to use these toys was one we came to together. What we’ve done, and the point we’ve reached in our relationship, have taken some time. It all started though with a discussion about why I wanted to use these toys.
So if you’re thinking about picking up a toy to spice things up this Valentine’s Day, discuss it with your partner before making any decision.
There’s More?
Absolutely! Should you be in the market or a new stroker for yourself or your partner, Kiiroo is currently offering up many of their strokers starting at just USD 39. Use code MARRIEDTOYS and take an additional 10% off your order.
If you’re looking for inspiration on how to use these toys, check out our Fansly where we share videos of some of our toys in action.
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